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How to stay safe on dating apps
The chat is going well, maybe too well. They want to move to another app, they are always just about to visit, and now there is a problem only money can fix. Plenty of matches are just people looking for someone, and a few simple rules filter out those who are not.
A safety routine, then dating apps. If you feel unsafe on a date, leave, and contact local emergency services if you are in danger. Report anyone who asks for money or threatens you to the app and, where appropriate, to the police.
Check before you trust
Use the app’s photo verification and look for profiles that have it. Keep chats in the app until you are comfortable; a match pushing to move fast to another messenger is a warning sign. Compare Bumble vs Tinder and Badoo vs Tinder.
See them before you meet
A short video call confirms the person matches their photos. Someone who always has an excuse not to show their face may not be who they say.
Meet on your terms
Choose a busy public place, get there and back on your own and tell a friend where you are and when you expect to be home. Share your location for the evening; see trip sharing apps. For a late ride home, compare taxi apps.
Money is the red line
Never send money, gift cards or crypto to someone you have not met, however urgent or emotional the story. Report and block them. Compare apps in dating apps.
| Step | What you do | Why |
|---|---|---|
| 1. Verified profiles | use the app’s checks | fewer fake accounts |
| 2. Stay in the app | at first | reporting works there |
| 3. Video call | before meeting | they are who they say |
| 4. Public first date | busy place, own transport | you can leave anytime |
| 5. Never send money | whatever the story | stops romance scams |
Frequently asked questions
How do I stay safe on a first date from a dating app?
Video call first, meet in a busy public place, use your own transport and tell a friend where you are.
How do I spot a romance scam?
Watch for someone who moves fast, avoids video calls, wants to leave the app and eventually asks for money.
What should I do if a match asks for money?
Do not send it. Report the profile to the app and block it.