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Using Togethis for different evenings
The same app fits a quiet evening for two and a loud table of friends. Here is which deck and mode to open for each, based on what the developer describes.
Based on the decks and features in the App Store listing and on togethis.app, read on 2026-10-02. Deck names are the developer’s own.
A date night
Start with the couples deck on the light side and move toward the bolder questions as the evening goes. Switch to Guess mode to see who knows whom better, and save the answers worth keeping in the memories journal.
The 36 Questions
The deck based on Arthur Aron’s study comes in three sets of twelve, from light to very personal. Take turns answering each question and do not rush the last set.
A family dinner
The family deck is meant to get three generations talking, from funny memories to stories nobody has told yet. One phone in the middle of the table is enough.
A party
Open the free starter deck or the party deck. Action cards break up the questions and get people moving.
Keeping the habit
Answer the question of the day, share the question of the week with your partner and keep the weekly couple streak going. Gentle reminders help when life gets busy.
| Evening | What to open in Togethis |
|---|---|
| Date night | For Couples deck, then Guess mode |
| Falling in love, slowly | 36 Questions to Fall in Love |
| Family dinner | For Family deck |
| Party with friends | For the Party deck with action cards |
| Nothing planned | Tonight’s Mix or the question of the day |
| Video call | Any deck, read the card aloud |
Frequently asked questions
Can we use Togethis on a video call?
Yes. The developer suggests it for video calls too: one person reads the card aloud and everyone answers.
Which Togethis deck is for a first date?
Start with the light part of the couples deck or the free starter deck, and keep the 36 Questions for when you want to go deeper.